“I am whole and perfect in every way.” From a spiritual perspective, life’s journey can be seen as an attempt to reclaim this truth. In fact, even our addictions can be a result of our attempts at restoration. Even our addictions can come out of the attempt to restore the connection to our true nature. …
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Evidence or Conclusion?

July 9th, 2019 | Posted by TJ Woodward in Uncategorized - (0 Comments)

Most of us are taught that we come to a conclusion by gathering evidence. If we look at the “facts” of a situation, we will be able to determine the correct conclusion. Our entire legal system is based on this, and many in the scientific community adhere to this structure of knowing as well. I …
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The word “trauma” can bring to mind certain ideas or associations. War zones may come to mind, or serious accidents, or the loss of someone close to you, or childhood abuse. You may have read about research on the physical, mental, and emotional impacts of PTSD (Posttraumatic Stress Disorder) on returning soldiers and victims of …
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The Law of Caring in Recovery

January 24th, 2019 | Posted by Sherry Gaba in Uncategorized - (Comments Off on The Law of Caring in Recovery)

Can you think back to a time when you were involved in some type of activity, perhaps at work or school, where you were trying to achieve a goal, but the goal was of little personal importance? Perhaps you were doing something a partner was passionate about or maybe it was something your boss required …
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Understanding The Anxious Avoidant Relationship Trap

January 14th, 2019 | Posted by Sherry Gaba in Uncategorized - (Comments Off on Understanding The Anxious Avoidant Relationship Trap)

There are many different types of dysfunctional relationships. In codependent types of relationships, a common pattern of behavior that can be found is the anxious-avoidant trap. Sherry Gaba explains this pattern in full detail in her book, The Marriage and Relationship Junkie, and once you know the trap, it is easy to see. The dynamics The …
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Can Marriage Be a Lonely Place?

December 17th, 2018 | Posted by Sherry Gaba in Uncategorized - (Comments Off on Can Marriage Be a Lonely Place?)

It seems like a strange contradiction, but it’s not uncommon for people in committed relationships to be lonely. They may miss having a sense of emotional closeness with their partner, or they may just feel a vague sense of dissatisfaction, or that something isn’t right in the relationship. When our emotional needs aren’t being met, …
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Harnessing Energy for Recovery

December 8th, 2018 | Posted by Sherry Gaba in Uncategorized - (Comments Off on Harnessing Energy for Recovery)

Recovery from any type of addiction is both physically as well as mentally exhausting and draining. For many people, it is literally peeling away layers upon layers of unhealthy behaviors and coping mechanisms to understand the root of the issue and then build new, effective and healthy coping mechanisms and behaviors. With all this energy …
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The One Thing You Absolutely Need to Find a Great Partner

November 8th, 2018 | Posted by Sherry Gaba in Uncategorized - (Comments Off on The One Thing You Absolutely Need to Find a Great Partner)

 I’ll admit, that title sounds kind of like an ad for perfume or positivity or plastic surgery. But you don’t need to go shopping for the one thing you absolutely need to find a great partner. Because—surprise!—what you really need is to know in your heart that you’re just fine on your own. That means …
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What Happens After the Breakup

November 2nd, 2018 | Posted by Sherry Gaba in Uncategorized - (Comments Off on What Happens After the Breakup)

Love hurts. Sometimes it hurts a lot. However you got here—whether your partner broke up with you, or you decided to break it off—grief is a process you have to work through. Take the time to work all the way through it and you’ll come out the other side stronger and smarter. In the beginning, …
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